"Preference" is my strongest lifestyle skill

In this weekend I went to Siquijor and Dumaguete.Especcially I like Dumaguete.

When I returned to Cebu from Dumaguete by the ferry at 5:00am, sudenlly I came up with the idea.

"Interesting" is my strongest lifestyle skill.

The person who doesn't understand his or her preference ordinally is swayed by external facters ( friend,parent,time,society etc).

Let's talk example.

If you don't understand your preference.

Your friend invited you a fishing but you were not interested in it.

But you didn't have a reason to refuse.

So you followed your friend and you couldn't enjoy a fishing.

If you understood your preference, you could refuse it.

If you have the intention "I really want to do this one!"

You are not gotten lost by external facters.

When we get lost something, we waste our time and mental.

If you must do something and you cannot enjoy it.

You must think " Why do I do this one?"

It's wasting.

I need to explain my past.

When I was in Japan,  actually I did not understand my preference.(sports,foods,game and something else...)

Because I have never concidered my self deeply.

Always I was conscious about another people and I wasted my time(my life!) for another people.

Always I conciderd that " I have to follow another person.", but it was a mistake.

If I understood my preference, I didn't have to follow another person.

Now I can understand my preference, my hobby and what do I want to do.

So I can concentrate my preference ( especially I love roam around,food and local!)

This awareness is usefull about my relationship.

Always we gather without perpose.

I always feel bored and cramped. Because when I am with others, I have to suit them.

I cannot suit another people well.

I worried about it for long time." Why I cannot suit others?"

When I noticed my preference,I did not need to make a relationship.

Because I am glad to chose alone.

When I am alone, i can enjoy my preference.

I cannot male a good relationship even if I force to suit others.

So I already gave up to make friends forcibly.

When I noticed this fact, my life became comfortable.

So I think "Preference" is my strongest lifestyle skill.